Compare, 2 Different Worlds

actually this thought has been drifting in my mind for years and i still dont have an ans to the strange but unique and happy relationship that i am sharing with that someone out there. ..how on earth can 2 very different personalities pple become the best friends for donkey yrs?! .. hehe i have a very special friend in my heart. ocassionally forget her, ocassionally remember her, ocassionally so mad at her for her choices but ocassionally still run to her whenever i am feeling down.

she was my sec sch schmate, my primary sch schmate, we shared the same ECA in sec sch, her core was a librarian, my core was netball, but our sub ECA are prefects .. though later i end up in jc while she still doing her N O levels, we still kept in touch during the jc yrs when my other 1 hasnt appear in my life.

conincidently her auntie is my auntie frd coz my frd sis n cousin enrolled in the same primary sch as my cousins so my cousins and her sis n cousins knew each other as well ..wow small small world and during our sch holidays, her sis, auntie n herself would help my uncle in his business in helping him do packing etc ... n earn some pocket $$ .. den when i go to uni, she started poly n working ..

we lost touch for dont know how long .. den we even haf some miscommunications when my other one appeared in my life coz i felt i was neglecting her .. or rather i tot she is neglecting me .. or .. aiya dont know wat happen .. i only vaguely remember i cried or get upset bcoz i couldnt handle a friendship n relationship at the same time .. then later the usual stuff happen .. i ditched my friendship for relationship, we lost touch until i changed my job from suntec to west coast ..

den this frd oso working around west coast den we met n talk again during lunch and get back together again until now. now i dont work at west coast but we occasionally met up for mj sessions .. ya i knew i am uqiting mj .. den why start it again? .. coz i dont know wat else can i do if i dun mj .. haha and of coz thank god didnt forget her ... fate gave her a bf .. n tings are looking good for her .. getting married soon coz she finally got her deg so can start saving up.

why i would say we are very different is because i like to go out into the sun while her hobbies are very indoor type .. like cooking la, shopping la, eat birdnest la .. me .. i prefer to eat macdonalds, kfc, go sentosa, get myself tan, learn new sports.. even go holidays i oso go on impulse .. while she plan n plan for the holidays ..

to me, she's always the more rational person whil i am the impulsive type who just do wat i like, how i feel, i go by my heart, she go by her brain.. very different hoh .. if u bully me, i will fight back n bite u back double or triple, if u bully her, then she will juz curse n swear behind u den tats it .. den carry on with her life .. and best is .. even in appearance we are so different ..

she looks great n beautiful with short or long hairs .. i can only keep my hairs long to prevent pple from mistaking me as tomboy or lesbian .. she's skinny and all dresses fit her while i lost weight by 1% and gain by 100% .. hahaa .. so i am fat, she is thin. but i tink we have 2 tings in common - a) shopping, b) negative thinkings ... tats all .. haha

i dont love to cook n i cant cook .. she can cook n she cooks very well esp those very difficult tings like crab la .. fish with head la .. i can only manage those fish w/o head n tail type .. u know which type rite ..although i tried to pick up cooking when during my initial mths of marriage, i gave it up coz the before cook n after cooking preparation is too much for me to bear .. sian man .. rather eat out ..

i often try to find a similarity btwn 2 of us but i nver manage to find it. and i am often against her ideas and suggestions .. but i always run back to her when i need suggestions and ideas .. and when feeling moody esp after the mj queen got preg and i still cant ..and she still totally understand how i feel.

i dont know how will our friendship become yrs down the road when we start our own family, will we be as close as ever or we will drift apart, but just wan to say this ..

you r the best gal .. too bad i am not a les .. wahahaaa